Many guys often have problem with a very key requirement needed to marry an urhobo or isoko girl from Delta state southern Nigeria. Traditional a man mist dress on complete traditional attire of the urhobo or Isoko bride whether or not he is urhobo. It is a great sign of respect to his in laws. I remember attending a wedding and the groom was battling seriously with the traditional bead around his neck. It is awesome when a woman you love sees that you bend backwards to see that you make her your wife. Not so much of a problem to me. It is an amazing custom.