Here in Nigeria it is very typical for the man to get fed by the woman and in most cases on her kneel. I thank God daily that the era is quickly fading off and men now see the need to respect and love tenderly the women they marry who is also the mother of their children. I don't know what this guy is doing but it seems he is blowing the food cold with is mouth. A pampered wife is most likely going to serve you as a king. She no animal treat with love. Even our fore fathers did not treat their wives as animal very surprised how women molestation and severe abuse is very rampant..women please treat him well in return for love .